Introverts vs. Extroverts: What Are the Top 3 Misconceptions?
We’re not that different, people
“Is there such a thing as a shy extrovert?”
“Are introverts depressed?”
“Do extroverts ever shut up?”
“What is holding introverts back?”
These are just a few questions I saw online today, confirming that our perpetual confusion about each other continues to live on.
People talk abut introverts and extroverts as if they’re a scientist observing a wild animal. “Why does it behave this way?” “What does this mean?” “Ah, I think I know what it will do next.”
It’s not that complicated, guys. We’re all human. Even the introverts.
Let’s make things simple by letting go of the 3 most common misconceptions about introversion and extroversion.
1. It’s about how confident or smart you are
As an introvert, I’ve heard my share of “Why are you so quiet?” coupled with “What’s the matter?” and encouraging kind looks urging me to “speak up.” I’ve also been called “boring” for wanting to stay in instead of go party and I’ve had friends go ballistic on me if I take too long to reply to texts.
